Sunday, September 20, 2009

Talents and Serving Others

Yesterday we enjoyed being with friends honoring Fred & Louella Cozad for their long-time service to others. Larry Long, former State's Attorney in Bennett County and currently a judge, was the keynote speaker. He recognized the service the Cozads have given to the community and state of South Dakota, the Veterans, the legal profession, their religion, and their family (not listed in any order of importance).

Honoring Louella & Fred Cozad


The day had been proclaimed by the Governor of South Dakota as "Fred & Louella Cozad Day." Representatives from the American Legion were present to honor Fred for his 60 years of service as Bennett County's Veterans Service Officer.

Fred was also honored for his years serving as a city attorney for Martin and as a judge and the state's attorney in Bennett County. As prearranged, when Judge Long was presented with a special mentoring award by the SD Young Lawyers Association, he gave one of the two medal coins to Fred for mentoring him when he started his career as a young lawyer (see photo above).

Every guest speaker, including Fred's remarks, emphasized the contributing role Louella had made to these numerous achievements. A unique talent of hers that was mentioned frequently was how she could keep up at the typewriter with Fred's dictation resulting in a legal document ready to be signed. Fred quipped that they worked so much as a team that sometimes she would even finish the typing before he finished the dictating.

In their later years, Fred & Louella have chosen to dress identically. This has become a trademark and was mentioned by several last evening. Their daughter, Cathy, lovingly said in her remarks that only they could make a fashion statement of wearing matching clothes. As you see in the accompanying photo above, their clothes and accessories match in every detail.

Louella had a masters degree in Music Education and had been offered to try out for the Chicago Symphony with her clarinet talent, but instead she married Fred and moved to Martin where they still reside in the same home. Louella was the 13th person in the state of South Dakota to become a certified legal assistant.

Following the prime rib dinner, an invitation was extended to anyone else who would like to add their comments. I thought it was impressive that the son-in-law of their only daughter took the microphone and shared that he had never heard about most of the philanthropic things his parents-in-law had done through the years that were being recognized that evening.

One of the volunteer speakers was Jim Gardner, a cousin of Fred's. During the dinner, Jim had shared his musical talent at the keyboard playing from memory and moving smoothly from one song to the next. In his tribute to Louella, he mentioned that he had taken piano lessons from Louella for five years.

I admired how beautifully Jim had developed his musical talent. I, on the other hand, had taken piano, organ, and clarinet lessons from Louella; but I apparently didn't take lessons long enough! She was, however, an excellent teacher; and last evening I had the opportunity
to thank her and to tell her that I enjoyed having her as a teacher those many years ago.

Louella has been the organist for the Presbyterian church for years and years, so I am sure she was instrumental in having me become their organist my senior year in high school. As I realize now, it was because of her support I had the courage to be the accompanist for the high school choir that same year and to do a clarinet solo at contest. Sadly, I have not maintained these talents and do not like playing in public. Nevertheless, I am glad that I had those experiences. They have contributed to my love and enjoyment of music and my appreciation for the talents of others.

I read an article recently written by Janice Kapp Perry entitled "The Fun (and Fear) of Developing Our Talents." Here is a quote from the introduction:

"An important part of life is discovering our talents. They provide a focus for our lives, they bring us happiness, and it is through our talents that we serve others. It is important to watch for the right time and season and show gratitude for our gifts by magnifying them and using them with an eye single to the glory of God, who will bless our efforts. Part of discovering and using our God-given gifts is gaining enough confidence to overcome our fears and gain the appropriate amount of self confidence that is necessary to use our talents to bless others."

Our daughter Beth told me last week about being a visiting teacher for a 79-year-old sister who every ten years chooses a new talent to develop. This past decade, she has enjoyed learning to paint. What a great way to enjoy life!

Thursday, September 17, 2009

Pre-Weaning Shots for Calves


Yesterday it was kind of noisy in the corrals while they were giving shots to the calves before they are weaned. The shots are to protect the calves from pneumonia and other respiratory diseases.



Most of the calves were born in March and April.


Chaps hanging on the post while the
hired men have gone to lunch.


Horses by the barn get a lunch break, too.


The green countryside just weeks ago
has taken on the look of fall.


While the hired men were working with the calves, Sam was in the field planting winter wheat the day after having cataract surgery on his left eye. Now both eyes have corrected vision, with the right eye for reading and the left eye for seeing distances. He is liking not having to wear his contact when he reads and being able to read the scores on the TV.

Monday, September 07, 2009

Morgan/Rossiter Family Reunion

Family and friends of Laura Morgan, Sam's 98-year-old aunt, gathered for a family reunion September 6 at Billy & Connie Parson's farm northeast of Milesville. Laura was born in 1911 and is amazing. Although she is looking more frail recently, she has kept her health and prefers using stairs rather than the elevator despite having recovered from a broken hip. She enjoys visiting with family and friends and is always cheerful. She and Homer had eight children, seven of whom were in attendance. (Their son Al died of cancer a few years ago.)


Laura with her children:
Kent, Kyle and Keith (triplets);
Ed, Jerry, Phil, and Connie


Laura had one sister, Mabel, who married Harold Ireland; and they had four children: Sam, Phyllis, Karen, and Roy. (Phyllis lives in California and was not at the reunion.)


Barbie & Roy Ireland, Aunt Laura,
Sam & Narene Ireland,
and Karen & Bill Hicks


A large decorated cake featured
Laura & Homer's 1905 homestead home.
There was lots of good food.


Lots of visiting.


Lots of pictures taken.


Laura with her five living sons:
Jerry, Keith, Kent, Ed, and Phil


Laura with her daughters:
Kyle and Connie


Laura with nephews, Roy and Sam


Laura with Audry, a niece


Gerald (Jerry) was the next oldest
after Al. His wife Gladys will send me
their family picture that was taken,
as I missed getting one with my camera.


Phil with his son Mark, grandson Jack, and
Mark's wife Angie.


Connie & Billy Parsons hosted the reunion at their
farm. Here they are with their children:
Marla, Grant and Glenn (twins), and Brad


The eldest Brad with "little" sister Marla


Grant & Sandi Parsons family:
Cole (stepson), Caiden & Joseph (step-grandsons),
and son Will & wife Michaela


Glenn & Dianne Parsons and Chelsea


Connie & Billy Parsons family group photo


Ed & Bonnie Morgan family:
Justin, Jeaniece, and Stephen


Family group photo:
Ed & Bonnie with sons Justin and Stephen and
Jeaniece & daughters (Hillary and Kelly)


Kieth & Norlene Morgan


Kent & Twilla Morgan


Kyle Taylor


Several of us went for a short tour of the
countryside. This was a neat old building
and fence that made a nice photo.


We also saw this big snapping turtle
headed for a pond.


Bill & Karen came from Gering Saturday
evening and stayed with us two nights.
We enjoyed their visit. Roy & Barbie
also rode with us to the reunion.
(Notice the gazebo in the background that
Connie's family made for her.)


We are grateful for family and appreciate being associated with such good people who are enjoyable to be with whenever we are together.

Tuesday, September 01, 2009

Sam's Cataract Surgery


We returned home this afternoon from Rapid City where Sam had successful out-patient cataract surgery yesterday on his right eye. He had a follow-up appointment today, so we stayed overnight in a motel. They replaced the lens in his right eye with an artificial lens that will now do the correction needed for intermediate to close-up vision. On September 14, he will have the left eye done with the correction for long distance vision. He is already used to this kind of split vision, so to speak, from having worn just one contact in the right eye for reading and no contact in the left eye for seeing at a distance. He has been getting along fine today without any discomfort and can read without a contact or glasses, although for small print he may still want to use reading glasses sometimes.


Lana Backen and three children stopped by for a visit on August 21. She used to be in our Martin branch before moving to Washington.


Lana, R.J., Eli, and Charlottie


We had a pot luck after church Sunday. Brother & Sister Barker from Kilgore were visiting. He serves on the district council, and the theme of his talk was about apostles in Christ's church. Tauna's parents from Provo, Utah were here visiting and also came with Brent & Tauna's family to Rosebud. They left Monday morning to visit a daughter's family in Iowa and a son's family in Indiana.


I was surprised to look out my kitchen window
one day and see this squirrel.


Our 13-year-old dog, Happy, was lying on the porch when the squirrel came down from the tree and stopped near the step. Happy got up and looked; but when the squirrel started to scurry off, Happy lost interest and returned to his nap - unlike his former days when he would have seen this as an opportunity for a fun chase.

That's about all I have to write about this time. Some days seem fairly routine without much to write about or pictures to post; but, in fact, sometimes it is rather nice to have days like that. Certainly we are grateful for each day we are given and for our blessings.

Maybe my not having something exciting to write about made this cartoon seem appropriate to share here. At any rate, I thought it was rather clever.