Monday, July 28, 2025

St. Johns Has a Secret - Rex Lee Sr.'s Violent Death


Rex Lee Sr.’s violent death split a tiny Arizona town in two. Eighty-eight years later, the town is still healing

Samuel is the national political correspondent for the Deseret News. He covered the 2024 presidential election and authors the "On the Trail" newsletter.

“The versions of what happened on that ill-fated hunting trip were as numerous as those who chose to talk about it.” — A History of the St. Johns Arizona Stake 

Rex Lee Jr. — the acclaimed U.S. solicitor general and founding dean of Brigham Young University’s law school — had a personal interest in a certain unsolved mystery. It involved his father’s death, and even near the end of his life, he wanted that history told.

“There’s a real story there,” Lee Jr. told his biographer on one occasion. “You ought to write a book on it someday.”



The year was 1934, and Rex Lee Sr. went hunting. The trip to northern Arizona’s Kaibab Mountains was something of an annual ritual for the Whitings, the family into which Lee married two years prior in October 1932. 

It was Armistice Day, just 16 years after German forces laid down their guns to end World War I. But on this holiday, the Whiting men took up arms of their own and traveled 300 miles north from St. Johns, Arizona, the town where they lived, to hunt deer.  

Lee brought along a friend, John Chiono. Both men had moved to St. Johns after marrying into two of the town’s most prominent families: the Whitings and the Pattersons. 

On Sunday morning, when it came time for the party to divide into pairs, the Whitings split up among themselves, and Lee and Chiono left together. Some recalled them arguing the night before at camp, but Chiono later denied it. Others said there was tension between the two stemming back from before the trip. But it was Lee who invited Chiono, and it was Lee who ventured off with him into Arizona’s ponderosa pines.

By Chiono’s account, the two walked up a little ridge and over a bluff, where the trail forked. Chiono went to the right and Lee to the left. What happened next remains a mystery. 

But Rex Lee Sr. — whose descendants are some of Utah’s leading political figures — never lived to tell his side of the story. Lee went missing, and a search party eventually found his body lying on a sheet of limestone, a bullet through his head. 

In St. Johns, this story has been told and retold so many times that it’s hard to know what’s embellishment and what’s fact. Rumors of marital infidelity and business feuds animate the conflicting accounts. I traveled to St. Johns to hear from the townsfolk firsthand, and I consulted history books, old newspaper clippings and court documents to try and uncover the real story — the story Rex Lee Jr. wanted told. 

On one side of the feud, I found, Chiono is viewed as a saint; on the other, a murderer. And in the 88 years since Lee died, what remains is a town that’s never fully healed, but hasn’t given up trying.

St. Johns, population 3,500, is located along a barren stretch between Phoenix and Albuquerque, New Mexico. It’s the biggest small town in America, one resident told me —because of its outsized political influence.


The town’s cemetery is situated atop a plateau with a near-unobstructed panorama view of the area: To the south are houses and shops; to the north is an endless desert. The cemetery is small — no bigger than two football fields — but my local guide finds plenty to talk about. 


St. Johns’ most notable names are buried here, he says. Morris Udall, the 1976 presidential candidate and longtime member of the U.S. House of Representatives, was laid to rest on the cemetery’s west end. At his side lies his brother, Stewart, a fellow congressman and interior secretary. Their father, Levi S. Udall, the chief justice of the Arizona Supreme Court, rests close by. Levi’s brother-in-law, Rex E. Lee Sr., is interred here, too, ever since that fateful hunting trip in 1934. 

But his only child, Rex E. Lee Jr. — born three months after his father’s death, and arguably St. Johns’ most famous son — is absent. After an illustrious career as U.S. solicitor general and president of BYU, Rex Jr. was buried in Provo, Utah. Two of Rex Jr.’s sons — Utah Sen. Mike Lee and Utah Supreme Court Justice Thomas Rex Lee — now carry on the family name some 500 miles north of where their grandfather rests.

Cristian Patterson — a resident of St. Johns who offered to show me around — takes a deep breath. “I just don’t understand why anyone would say it was anything other than an accident,” he laments. We turn a corner and the words on a charcoal-colored headstone come into view: CHIONO, a bouquet of fresh flowers resting nearby.

Through marriage, Patterson is the nephew of the man who killed Rex Lee Sr. His mother is the last living relative who knew him personally, and she — like many of Chiono’s relatives — believes he’s innocent. But plenty of people disagree, including some of the Lees.“Our family has never believed it was a hunting accident,” Sen. Mike Lee said in an interview earlier this year with the Deseret News. 

In St. Johns, the story stays in the past — half-confronted and largely unhealed. Yet there are whispers, like there are in so many small towns. To some it was a tragic accident, but to others, a cold-blooded murder.

The story is complicated enough — and emotional enough — that the two sides may never form a consensus. But a common narrative may not be what’s most important for the healing process to take place, says Justin Collings, a law professor at BYU who has studied conflict and reconciliation in post-apartheid South Africa and post-Holocaust Germany. 

“Finding a common narrative is really challenging,” Collings told me. “The best you can hope for is people feeling that they have been heard.

It took two days for Chiono to confess to killing Lee.After a bullet struck Lee’s head, Chiono made his way back to camp and told no one about what happened. When people asked for Lee’s whereabouts, Chiono said they split up. The next morning, a group of hunters went out to search for Lee, and Chiono joined them. 

Word spread and the search party’s numbers ballooned in size, until nearly 100 hunters and residents from across the area joined. On the second day of searching, when they neared the place of Lee’s corpse, Chiono was the one to spot him. “My God, I’ve found Rex,” Chiono yelled, dropping to the ground. “He’s dead, he’s dead, he’s dead.”

A handful of the men examined the body. Lee lay on his back, a pool of dried blood near his head. His rifle — fully loaded — lay at his side. The bullet struck the front of Lee’s hat, just above the forehead, and passed through his brain. Eight men signed an informal inquest, declaring the death as “instantaneous” and “accidental by an unknown party.”

Chiono, looking on, kept quiet. 

Lee’s body was hefted onto a makeshift stretcher, carried off the mountain and transported back to St. Johns. That night, back in town, Chiono confessed to Lee’s brother-in-law, Lynn Whiting. 

“I can’t go on,” Whiting recalled Chiono saying. “You know I killed him.”Chiono claimed he saw a deer, shot his rifle, and ran in the general direction of his bullet. When he discovered Lee’s lifeless body, Chiono said he went into a fit. “I guess I went crazy,” Chiono later told a journalist. “I wandered around not knowing what to do.”By Chiono’s account, the shock and horror prevented him from telling anyone. In court, he said he wanted to confess that first night but couldn’t bring himself to do it. This was only his third time hunting, he would later claim. 

But Lynn Whiting recalled another detail that complicated Chiono’s testimony. Shortly after Lee died and Chiono was returning to camp, he first ran into Whiting. The two had an impromptu target practice, shooting at the knots on a tree.

“There was a dead limb sticking out of the tree,” Whiting testified, “and John said, ‘Watch me cut that limb off.’”

Then Chiono, the self-described inexperienced hunter, lifted his rifle and blasted the limb to smithereens. In the days and weeks following Lee’s funeral, Chiono affirmed — then denied — he was the killer. The day after the funeral, Chiono went back to the site of Lee’s death. In tow were Joy Patterson (Chiono’s father-in-law) and one of Lee’s brothers, among others. There, Chiono confessed to accidentally shooting Lee. 

But Lee’s family sat Chiono down on three other occasions to hear his story. The first two times Chiono walked back his previous statements, saying he wasn’t sure it was his bullet that struck Lee. The third time, he confessed, though he maintained it was an accident.Seven months passed before Chiono was arrested and charged with murder. The complaint was sworn by Lee’s brother, David. The Lees had been investigating on their own, aided by some experienced lawyers who married into the family — a superior court judge and two county attorneys.

The case against Chiono was three-pronged: Chiono took several days to admit he was the killer; Chiono flip-flopped between denial and confession; and Chiono was closer to Lee than Chiono originally claimed when he shot him.

If news of Lee’s death fractured the town, Chiono’s trial snapped it in two. 

Newspapers from across the state covered the trial closely, which was held during the first weeks of October 1935 in Flagstaff, Coconino County, where the death occurred. A local paper called it “one of the most sensational murder cases” in many years. Another underscored the “‘feud’ between two family factions.” Speculation about a possible motive drew attention to the town rivalry between the Pattersons and the Whitings. 

Angered by the optics of a trial nearly a year after Chiono confessed, the Pattersons claimed it was all an effort to take down their business. It was early in the Great Depression, but Patterson Motor Co. was prospering, thanks in part to Chiono, who was the company’s general manager. “Our business picked up as soon as he came in with me,” Chiono’s father-in-law (and boss) testified in court. But the main competitor — right across the street — was the Whiting Ford dealership, headed by Lee’s in-laws. Lee, an attorney, worked out of an office in the Whiting’s building.

Joy Patterson, Chiono’s father-in-law, testified in court that E.I. Whiting, Lee’s father-in-law, was a “cold” man who “would turn anything to his advantage.” In court, Patterson turned the accusations around on his rival: “He is responsible for this whole affair, at the bottom of this mess.”

Chiono’s lawyer, too, chided the Whitings for pursuing a “banquet of blood.” The prosecuting attorney snapped back: “Why would E.I. Whiting, Levi Udall and Dave Lee come in here and perjure their souls to put a noose around a man’s neck?”

“The courtroom was packed throughout the day,” one local newspaper reported.

The defense attorney sought to convince the jury of Chiono’s uprightness, and he brought in a who’s who of witnesses from Chiono’s life to do the persuading, including Chiono’s former university president and football coach. Chiono was a two-sport star at Flagstaff State College, now Northern Arizona University.

The strategy worked. When the prosecution brought additional evidence or presented some damning testimony, the defense shot it down with testimony of Chiono’s reputation, claiming there was no apparent reason for Chiono to intentionally commit such a heinous act. 

Nearing the end of the trial, Lee’s attorney made an impassioned plea “that the son of Lee ... might grow up to have respect for the law,” a newspaper account said. But above all else he wanted the boy to know “that John Chiono was punished for what he had done.”

The defense attorney rebutted: “In order to offer up (Chiono), the state must prove two things. First, that Chiono’s bullet killed Rex Lee, and second, a motive.”

The prosecution failed to present a convincing case for either. Four hours after being released to deliberate, the jury returned with its verdict: involuntary manslaughter, effectively acquitting Chiono of intentional wrongdoing. According to newspaper reports, when the judge read the verdict, Chiono’s brother, who was present in the courtroom, collapsed to the floor. John Chiono rushed to his aid, then he, too, fainted. 

A physician carried them both out of the courtroom.When I first called Mayor Spence Udall of St. Johns, I asked him what he knew about Rex Lee Sr. “We don’t talk about Uncle Rex,” he told me. When I asked what that meant, the mayor paused. “I’ll tell you,” he said, but then asked me not to write about it. 

A month later, the mayor warmed to the idea of me writing about Uncle Rex, and the two of us walked through St. Johns City Hall together. It was in this very building, the mayor said, where he first heard about the incident. Back then, the building was the old Patterson Motors Co., where Chiono was once manager. 

Chiono’s brother-in-law, Charlie, also worked there; he was a gentle and patient man, Udall said. But once — and only once — Udall saw Charlie snap. It was while Udall hung out with one of Charlie’s sons, both elementary school-age. Udall saw a black-and-white portrait framed on the wall inside the Patterson Motor Co., and he asked his friend who it was.

Charlie, in the adjacent room, heard the boys talking, and walked out, fuming. “That’s John Chiono, and it was a damn accident,” Charlie said, then turned and left. Udall was dumbstruck. He had no idea what Charlie was referring to. But the boys had enough sense not to ask anything else.

As Udall grew, he heard whisperings about a hunting trip and a family rivalry and “a murder.” It became clear two of the town’s most prominent families were somehow involved. Udall started investigating on his own — making trips out to the town cemetery, even trekking up to Flagstaff to dig up the old records from Chiono’s court case. 

But so much remains unknown, he concluded.

Eventually, as we talked, he invited his sister to come to City Hall. Cameron Udall lives right up the road, and she’s a walking encyclopedia of St. Johns history, having written a book on the subject. Sitting upright in a chair, she responded to my questions with rapid-fire responses. But when I asked how long it took the town to heal after Lee’s death and the subsequent trial, she glanced at her brother, then leaned back.

“I don’t know it really has,” she said.

Despite occurring nearly 90 years ago, Rex Lee Sr.’s death seems more present. The little towns that dot rural Arizona are still populated with many of the families that first settled them. St. Johns is no different: the Udalls, the Whitings, the Lees and the Pattersons. That makes history feel less distant, Betsy Gaines Quammen, a historian of the western United States, told me.

“Its like these little communities live with ghosts,” Quammen said. “And if a little community has a tragedy like this, they still remember it. These are the stories that make up their town.

Such stories can be paralyzing, but they can also catapult reconciliation — what social psychologists call “community resilience.” According to Jack Saul’s book, “Collective Trauma, Collective Healing,” community resilience is a joint endeavor, relying on a group’s communal ability to heal.

And St. Johns has its own history of resilience to draw from. When Latter-day Saint pioneers first arrived in the 1870s, they were sold land for which other settlers, many of them Mexican Catholics, thought they already had “squatters’ rights.”

“The Mexicans resented us and we did not blame them very much,” wrote David King Udall, the area’s first bishop. “Their ‘squatters’ rights’ had not been properly respected by those who sold the land to our people.”

Despite the Saints’ efforts to quell the locals’ uneasiness, the contempt turned from bad to worse. Locals soon started a newspaper, The Apache Chief, with the apparent intent of stirring up animosity. On May 30, 1884, The Chief published a particularly biting editorial. 

“How did Missouri and Illinois get rid of the Mormons? By the use of the shotgun and rope,” it read. “Desperate diseases need desperate remedies. The Mormon disease is a desperate one and the rope and the shotgun are the only cure.” 

But the story didn’t end with violence. Conflicts continued, but over time a relationship of cooperation grew. The sectarian animosity dissipated.

The years after Chiono’s trial were disastrous for St. Johns. The Depression hit the town hard, and old photos show townsfolk lining up to receive surplus commodities as part of the New Deal program in 1940. In 1942, the Whiting family — just years removed from the tragic loss of their son-in-law — was dealt another blow. A butane tank in their garage erupted, causing an explosion so forceful it shattered windows five blocks away. The blast killed two people and leveled the Whitings’ car dealership, gas station and grocery store. 

A year after the trial, Chiono was pardoned by the governor. But unanswered questions from the trial lingered in the town. Lee’s corpse was found with a broken shoulder. How did the injury happen? 

 St. Johns churches: (left) Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints;              (right) Catholic Church

Other salacious rumors spread. Some said Lee stumbled upon Chiono having an affair, but I found no evidence to corroborate these claims. An Arizona historian, Janne Eppinga, came to St. Johns in the ’90s to write about the hunting trip, the townsfolk say, and some tell me she was the one to uncover those affair rumors about Chiono. 

Eppinga, however, died in 2019. And, despite many attempts, I was unable to contact relatives or even locate anything she wrote about the Lee-Chiono incident. 

The Pattersons with whom I spoke claim Chiono was an honorable man. He managed the Patterson family business to financial prosperity and was a caring uncle (and something of a surrogate father) to his wife’s 10 younger siblings. The youngest of those Patterson children, Rob Roy, died in 2005; his wife, Diane, is likely the last living relative who knew Chiono. Chiono’s only child, Sandra, died in 2004.

Diane still lives in St. Johns, and when I visited with her, she spoke about Chiono with reverence. “He was so nice,” she said. When Diane first came to town while she was dating Rob Roy, it was Chiono who made her feel at home. And when Roy and Diane — two poor college kids in Tucson — decided they were to be married, it was Chiono who drove down and helped pay for the engagement ring. 

Other stories about Chiono still circulate through Patterson family lore. Once, during the peak of the Depression, he went door to door around town, convincing folks to give up their spare gas rations to help the high school basketball team drive to road games. 

But as his daughter, Sandra, neared her 18th birthday, Chiono began to act peculiar, Diane recalled. Perhaps his health turned south or an augmented sense of guilt ate away at his psyche. He became more irritable and more insular; when his wife, Fay, would cook his favorite Italian dishes, he wouldn’t eat. He lost weight and his physical appearance began to change.

Sometime near Sandra’s high school graduation, John went missing. A search party looked through the night, to no avail. The next morning, a group went out to the Patterson family farm. Chiono’s body was found in the barn, lifeless, on a bale of hay. A rifle was on the ground. The death certificate, dated May 3, 1952, listed the cause of death as “gun shot wound, self inflicted.” He left no note.

Diane, like others in the Patterson family, presume Chiono suffered some illness — “a brain tumor,” they say — that caused him to die by suicide. 

But there is another side to the story, two members of the Lee family separately told the Deseret News. When Rex Jr. was 17, Chiono saw him in town and asked about his future plans. “I’m going to go to law school,” Rex Jr. said.

Chiono, who’d been pardoned of manslaughter after killing Lee’s father, tensed. “Your father would be proud,” he said. That night, Chiono went to the barn and took his life.

Rex Lee Jr. never knew his father. He was born 312 months after his dad was killed. When his mother, Mabel, remarried, she took on the surname “Shumway,” though her son always bore her first husband’s name.

In the Shuwmay home, there were few conversations about Rex Lee Sr., and even fewer about what caused his death. The murder trial, long after splitting the town in two, was eventually buried in the past. Mabel chose only to speak of her first husband’s death as a hunting accident, and leave it at that. “My dad was raised entirely without knowledge of what had happened to his biological father,” Sen. Mike Lee said. 

But after Chiono’s own death the town began to whisper again. Was it an admission of guilt? Even some Pattersons said as much. One day, Rex Jr. overheard his parents talking. “I knew that guy couldn’t live with himself,” they said of Chiono. “I knew this would come out eventually.” And that’s when Rex Jr.’s mother told him all she knew about the circumstances of his father’s death.

But the lingering question for those who believed Lee was murdered was Chiono’s motive. Do the rumors — that he had an affair, and Lee knew about it — have any substance? Could it really be an outgrowth of a business dispute? Were there hard feelings between the two? Was it just a tragic accident?

Dozens of newspaper stories documenting the trial provide few concrete answers. Neither do the memories of the townspeople. Even the court documents — stashed in the archives in the Coconino County Courthouse in Flagstaff — are now largely blotted or blurred, hardly legible. But as the prospect of any definite answer fades with the passing years, the possibility of reconciliation lies with the town and among the families.

On Sundays, St. Johns goes to church. Nearly a century-and-a-half has passed since Latter-day Saints were threatened with rifle and rope. Tensions have long since cooled. And today, visitors to St. Johns are greeted by a large Latter-day Saint chapel on the west end of Cleveland Street, the town’s main thoroughfare; on the east end stands a Catholic parish founded in 1880 and named for St. John the Baptist.

In town, there is no longer a stake academy and a separate public school; all children, regardless of religion, learn together. Latter-day Saints and Catholics sit on the City Council and community events. And aside from the occasional small-town squabble, there’s peace and normalcy. They can talk about the town’s origins without rancor. 

Sunday, July 27, 2025

Before Mike Ditka Became a Coaching Legend

Before Mike Ditka Became a Coaching Legend




It was a cold, hard-fought afternoon in Chicago when a rookie named Mike Ditka left the Green Bay Packers defence stunned—hauling in one of three touchdowns on the day, despite the close coverage of safety Willie Wood. The pass came from quarterback Bill Wade, but the statement belonged entirely to Ditka. With that game, the Chicago Bears’ first-round pick in 1961 wasn’t just announcing his arrival—he was redefining the tight end position before fans’ very eyes.

Before Ditka’s entry into the league, tight ends were largely seen as bulky blockers—gritty support players tucked between the tackles. But Ditka brought something revolutionary: soft hands, sharp routes, and a bruising after-catch presence that challenged defensive backs and linebackers alike. In his Rookie of the Year season, he exploded with 56 receptions for 1,076 yards and 12 touchdowns—mind-blowing numbers for a tight end in that era. His physicality and agility created matchup nightmares, and it became quickly clear that the tight end was no longer just an extension of the offensive line—it was a weapon.

By 1964, Ditka had raised the bar even higher with 75 receptions in a single season—a record for tight ends that held firm for over 15 years. What made his accomplishments even more impressive was his ironman durability. He never missed a single start during his 84-game tenure with the Bears. Through grit, talent, and a no-nonsense attitude, Ditka embodied everything Chicago fans loved—toughness, loyalty, and pride in the jersey. Or as they say in the Windy City: *Da Bears!*

Long before he became a coaching legend and a sideline staple, Mike Ditka carved his legacy with bruising routes and highlight-worthy catches, forever changing how the NFL—and the world—viewed the tight end. 


Saturday, July 26, 2025

A Message for Our Time - D & C 81-83

The Sacred Refiner's Fire: Thoughts on Elder Christofferson’s 'Our Relationship with God,' General Conference, May 2022





A Message for Our Time  


This week’s Come, Follow Me study of Doctrine and Covenants 81–83 illuminates the Lord’s covenantal promises to those who serve faithfully, even amid uncertainty. In harmony with these revelations, Elder Christofferson’s timeless message, "Our Relationship with God," invites us to examine the nature of divine trust. When blessings seem delayed or suffering persists, do we lean on conditional faith, or do we seek the Giver rather than the gifts?  


 

The Folly of Finite Judgment: Job’s Humility and the Divine 

Tapestry

When the whirlwind of suffering stripped Job of all but his aching soul, he stood, raw and trembling, before the terrifying majesty of the Almighty. "Shall mortal clay arraign the Potter?" thundered the Voice from the storm. Here, in the ashes of Uz, we confront the first sacred paradox: that true wisdom begins when we relinquish the arrogant demand to understand and instead embrace the holy act of trusting.  

Elder Christofferson, like Elihu of old, reminds us that our vision is myopic, our understanding fragmented. The Lord’s declaration, "All things are present with me," shatters the illusion that blessings must arrive according to our mortal clocks. Like impatient children tugging at a parent’s sleeve, we mistake delayed fulfillment for divine neglect. Yet the scriptures whisper of a grander economy: Abraham waited decades for Isaac; Joseph endured betrayal and prison before deliverance; even the Son of God cried, "Why hast Thou forsaken Me?" before the resurrection dawned.  


 

The End of Transactional Faith: From Vending Machines to Vineyards

How easily we reduce divinity to a cosmic merchant! Insert prayer, receive blessing; drop tithes into the plate, withdraw prosperity. But Christ’s parable of the vine undoes this mechanical piety: "Every branch that beareth fruit, He purgeth it." The Husbandman’s shears are not cruelty. They are covenant love. A vending machine dispenses candy; a vinedresser cultivates life, even when pruning wounds.  


Brigham Young’s testimony becomes our lodestar: faith anchored not in outcomes but in the knowing of Christ. Consider the three virgins who perished on Elkenah’s altar. Their reward was not deliverance but divinity. Their story, paired with Abraham’s rescue, proclaims the sobering truth: faith is not a contract for temporal safety but a 

surrender to eternal sanctification.  


 

The Alchemy of Suffering: When God Seems Silent  

"O God, where art thou?" The Liberty Jail cry echoes through every Gethsemane of the soul. Yet in that dungeon of despair, heaven whispered: "Thine adversity is but a small moment." Sister Patricia Parkinson’s blindness, Joseph’s chains, Abinadi’s flames. These are not evidence of divine absence but the refiner’s crucible. "Heavenly Father is in this with me," she testified, her words joining the chorus of martyrs and saints who learned that God’s companionship in suffering is greater than exemption from it.  


The Savior, our Advocate, stands before the Father, displaying His scars as the eternal warranty of promised blessings. His plea, "Spare these my brethren," assures us that no anguish is wasted, no tear uncollected. As gold purified seven times, we are not abandoned to the fire but refined within it.  


 

The Sacred Invitation: Walking With God

"Rather than get angry with God, get close to God." Here lies the heart of the message: relationship over reward. To "walk with Them in the Spirit" is to exchange the ledger of demands for the liturgy of presence. Like Enoch, we are called not to negotiate with heaven but to converse with it, to let the I AM reshape our "natural man" into His likeness.  


Paul’s vision of glory "revealed in us" transforms present sorrows into seeds of resurrection. The purging vine, the refiner’s fire, the Potter’s hands. All work toward this end: that we might become "joint-heirs with Christ," our scars shining as stars in the firmament of eternity.  



The Testimony of Trust  

Elder Christofferson’s closing whisper, "Trust in the Lord with all thine heart," is the sum of all wisdom. To trust is not to comprehend but to cling; not to demand answers but to rest in the Answerer. The God who spared Isaac and abandoned Abinadi, who freed Alma and left Joseph in prison, asks only this: that we believe His heart is good even when His hand is hidden.  


So let us come, then. Not as petitioners with clenched fists, but as children with open hands. For in the end, the blessing we seek is not the gift, but the Giver; not the temporal relief, but the eternal embrace. And that is joy unspeakable.  

"Though He slay me, yet will I trust in Him." (Job 13:15) 

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St. Johns Memories - We Were Dance Directors & Performed in SLC on U of Utah Footbal Field

Darwin and Erma Grant were the stake dance directors in St. Johns, Arizona, and called Sam and me to be the ward dance directors the year after we graduated from BYU and went to St. Johns to teach in the high school. We taught the high school youth the dance routines as part of our ward's Mutual Improvement Association. We learned the choreographed dances and performed with our youth in the Dance Festival at the University of Utah football stadium along with the 7,000 participants. My granddaughters may remember playing dress-up in some of the costumes from that special Dance Festival. Here is a copy of information about this special couple from St. Johns, Darwin and Erma Grant, who were special friends of ours.
(COPY) When Darwin Dewey Grant was born on 19 January 1918, in Rockland, Power, Idaho, United States, his father, Howard Eldredge Grant, was 27 and his mother, Emily Hazel Howard, was 25. He married Erma Whiting on 4 November 1939, in Saint Johns, Apache, Arizona, United States. They were the parents of Merwin and Howard Grant. He lived in Pine, Gila, Arizona, United States in 1930 and Saint Johns, Apache, Arizona, United States for about 10 years. In 1950, at the age of 32, his occupation was listed as car salesman in Saint Johns, Apache, Arizona, United States. He died on 19 December 2004, in Mesa, Maricopa, Arizona, United States, at the age of 86, and was buried in Saint Johns, Apache, Arizona, United States.  
Grant is survived by his wife, Erma Whiting Grant and five children, Mervin Grant, Howard Grant, Rita Lions, Ron Grant and Robert Grant. He is also survived by 26 grandchildren and 36 great grandchildren and two brother Lyle Grant and Joey Grant and one sister June Sandburg.

Darwin and Erma at the left in the back row of this photo.

St. Johns Bishopric - front row:  Sam, the bishop, with his counselors and ward clerk (Wayne Davis, Tom Biggs, and Wendell Hansen)

(photo taken when returning to St. Johns for a visit after we moved; these were special friends who lived on our block in St. Johns)
Lakay Grant, Mary Ellen (1933-2021) and Barry Webb, Sam, Joey Grant

Other special friends from St. Johns, whose obituaries are shared here from a search online:

Heap, Parley Verl - of St. Johns, AZ, died peacefully at his home on December 24, 2008. He was born September 6, 1924, in St. Johns, to Parley and Leona Heap. Verl loved outdoor activities and was a life-long farmer and rancher. After high school he went to ASU on a basketball scholarship. After one year he enlisted in the Air Force and served his country as a B17 pilot. While in the service, he married Dawn Sherwood, also from St. Johns. After the war, they returned to ASU where he resumed his education and basketball career. After a short career as a professional basketball player, he decided to return to Arizona to raise a family. He spent a short time back at ASU as an assistant coach and then 2 years at Duncan HS. He then returned to St. Johns where he again took up farming/ranching and coached and taught school for 35 years. He was an active and devoted member of The LDS church, a devoted husband and father, friend and neighbor and he loved and supported his family with all his heart. He was preceded in death by his parents Parley and Leona Heap, a sister Peggy and his oldest son Gary. Survivors include: His wife of 63 years, Dawn Sherwood Heap; daughters, LeAnn Proctor and Eileen Lindsey; sons, Jimmy and Roger Heap; brothers, Theo and Ronald Heap; sisters, Mary Ellen Webb and Lakay Grant; 18 grand children, and 17 great grand children. Funeral services will be held On January 3, at 11:00 A.M. with a viewing one hour before at The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, Down Town Chapel, in St. Johns. There is also a viewing at Burnham Mortuary in St. Johns on Friday, January 2, from 6:00 to 8:00 p.m. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to St. Johns High School Basketball.

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MaryEllen Webb, dearest mother, grandmother and sister, returned to live with our Father in Heaven, Saturday, November 20, 2021 in Eagar. She was 88 years old. MaryEllen was born September 26, 1933 in St. Johns to Parley J. Heap and Leona Wilkins Heap.

MaryEllen talked of the wonderful childhood she enjoyed while growing up in St. Johns. She was very involved in her high school and was the Valedictorian of her graduating class. She attended Brigham Young University for a time and then went on to graduate from Arizona State University with a teaching degree.

MaryEllen met her eternal sweetheart Marion Barry Webb during her high school years and they married June 29, 1954 in the Mesa Arizona Temple. They were married for almost 60 years.

MaryEllen taught school for 30 years. She loved it and was an amazing teacher. She took pride in her lessons and her classroom. She was loved by her students and was considered a favorite by so many of them. She also really enjoyed her association with the other teachers and administration.

MaryEllen has a beautiful soprano voice and loved music. She and Barry also loved their friends which included her siblings and their spouses and spent many hours enjoying life with them. MaryEllen had a strong testimony of our Savior Jesus Christ and instilled that in her children.

MaryEllen is survived by her children, Danna (Ronnie) Finch, Eagar; Leisha (Lenn) Brown, Mesa; Natalie (Scott) Taylor, Cottonwood; Tray (Melissa) Webb, Marana; sister, LaKay (Joey Halbert Grant) Grant, St. Johns; brother, Theo (Gloria) Heap, Mesa; 23 grandchildren and 51 great grandchildren.

She was preceded in death by her eternal companion, Barry Webb, parents, Parley and Leona Heap, brothers, Verl Heap, Ronald Heap and sister, Peggy Stradling.

Funeral services will be held Saturday, December 4, 2021 at 11:00 a.m. at The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, St. Johns Downtown Chapel, with visitation one hour prior. Interment will follow the funeral services at the St. Johns Westside Cemetery.

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Joey Halbert Grant Born 15 Nov 1935 in Kanab, Utah; death 27 Mar 2022, aged 86, Mesa, Maricopa County, Arizona; burial Saint Johns Cemetery.  Parents:  Howard Eldredge Grant & Emily Hazel Howard Grant.  Siblings: Howard Lyle Grant, Darwin Dewey Grant, Hazel June Grant Sandberg, Delma Jean Grant Romney, Udell Sherwood Grant, Rayda Polly Grant Bull.  Children:  Darwin Joey "Dendy" Grant, 1957-2000.