We have emptied the large walk-in closet upstairs and going through things that had been kept there. Some things have currently been moved to the "photograph and scrapbook" closet and other items are being evaluated whether to keep or discard.
Beth came over yesterday and she and I went through a basket full of cards and letters from family and friends. Most were tossed into the discard pile, but we sorted others into eight piles for our children and one for me to further review before saving or discarding. This was an enjoyable task and brought back some nice memories.
Following are some of the thoughts written by family and friends on their Christmas cards that I have appreciated reading once more. I have included photos I had on my computer.
(Quotation marks are included when appropriate, and photos are included when available and follow after the quotes and comments.)
Note: These are not listed in any chronological or alphabetical order.
Esther Davis from St. Johns, 2013 (who turned 94 in December 2023): "Some time ago someone, I can't remember who, sent us a saying that rings true. It is as follows 'Some people come into our lives and quietly go. Others stay for a while and leave footprints in our hearts and we are never the same'."
Esther's husband Wayne was still alive in 2013 but was having a hard time getting around. She was still giving voice lessons to eleven students each week and was the chorister of the ward choir. She was going to be helping with the high school production of "Footloose" and helped soloists in "Seven Brides for Seven Brothers, "Beauty and the Beast, and "Les Miserable."
Esther's 2018 letter: "When Wayne and I were called on our first mission, we were given the blessing that because we were willing to serve, many missionaries would come from our family. This has certainly been true, as fifty-six have served all over the world. Four of our grandchildren, and two of our great-grandchildren are currently serving or have recently returned."
2018: "Six great-grand babies and one great, great grand baby have been born this year with four more on the way. This will make a grand total of 220 in our family. . . . It is still hard having my darling Wayne gone. I'm thankful for the knowledge that I will be able to see him again, along with many others whom I love."
2018: Remembered and shared this saying: "Some people come into our lives and quietly go. Others stay for a while and leave footprints in our hearts and we are never the same." Esther added this handwritten note at the end of her letter: "You are such a special couple and friend."
2022: "I am doing well but feeling my 93 years after having Covid twice! Our family is growing in leaps and bonds, like ours. When we are all together the count is now 245. We feel most blessed."
2023: "I am doing well. Still able to drive to and attend the temple in Snowflake. I have stopped giving voice lessons since having Covid twice. My vocal cords don't work so well and have had to get a pace maker, but I still feel well. Just turned 94 this year and if you don't know it, that is pretty old, as you can tell by my hand writing. When our next two babies are born will have 249 in our family and it is growing in leaps and bounds. We even have 10 great-great grand children. I think of you two often. You will always be one of Wayne and my favorite people on this earth."
Esther Davis - 2022
Esther and Wayne Davis and family - quite a few years ago
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Anna Smirnova, our former translator in Russia (written to us in Martin, SD in 2013 while she was serving a mission in Ukraine: "I'm glad for this miraculous time I have here. It seems that my testimony that this Church is true will keep me forever on this path. I always had a strong testimony as I saw miracles in my life. But here it becomes stronger and stronger every day. I love my mission! And I am grateful for your example! I will never forget you!!!" (Anna married and has added Afrika to her name.)
Anastasia and Anna Smirnova, our two interpreters in Moscow
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Karl and Barbara Wrigley, who have been our friends since we met at BYU. Sam and Karl were working toward a Master's together, and Barbara and I both worked as secretaries at the Utah Child Guidance Clinic in Provo where parents and troubled children had counseling appointments with the psychologists and counselors (Dr. Harston, Eloise Morley, and Richard Jensen). In their 2008 Christmas letter, they told about having served a mission at the St. George Visitors' Center and Historic Sites from Oct. 2006 until Oct. 2007. While we were living next door to the Wrigleys in Provo, their son Tony was born. Their children are Tony (md. to Colleen), Kent (md. to Julie), Susan (md. to Shaun), Scott (md. to Shannon), and Sherrie (md. to Brian.)
In another Christmas letter responding to my mentioning Sam's gall stone problem, Barbara wrote: "Karl has had some health issues this past year. The first of January he had a very large blood clot. He had a filter already, so it didn't pass to his heart, lungs, or head. We are blessed. But since then, he has had kidney problems, anemia and pulmonary problems. He already is on an apnea machine. When we are in Provo the higher altitude bothers him. But, we have good doctors and he is doing better. (Their second home is in Provo).

Karl and Barbara Wrigley and family
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Gene and Jane Kraus - Gene was Sam's PhD supervisor at the University of Michigan when Sam was working on his doctorate. The photo was taken when they came with their family to visit us at the farm.
In their hand-written Christmas letter in 2018, they shared they had become octogenarians. To celebrate, their two boys (Ed and Tom) and their wives planned a surprise treasure hunt that included crossword puzzles, codes to decode, and a stretch limo to drive to each site that was solved. By the 3rd stop all 11 of their family (including the 5 grandchildren) were in the limo on its way to a restaurant for dinner and then back home for a decorated cake dessert. Riding in a limo had been on Jane's bucket list. For years, Jane said she had made up treasure hunts for the grandchildren, so this one "sort of brought things full circle for me."
We have continued to hear from Jane after Gene died. They have
Sam, Narene, Jane & Gene Kraus (in our home)* * * * * * * * * * * *
Anna Marie Barnes Smith is Sam's relative. Preserved Ireland's wife was a sister to Anna Marie's relative. Her relative went West with the Saints, but Sam's great-great grandparents, Preserved and his wife Susannah, did not. Anna Marie had contacted us years ago sharing this family history, and we first met her when she came to Marla's wedding reception in 1984. She was living in Utah in South Weber at that time. We began corresponding at Christmas time with Anna Marie after that. Her 2023 address is: Anna Marie Smith, 204 Plamondon Dr., Simpsonville, SC 29680.
The following quote is from Anna Marie's 2020 Christmas card on which she wrote a nice message that included the following:
"I had a great-uncle that served here in South Carolina in about 1895. They had to be careful because of mobs. He died here due to an illness. They had to ship his body home by train. His mother had a visit from him during the night after his death. I think that is wonderful. That he could do that. . . . I'm so grateful for the Gospel and for my Savior. It makes all the difference in your life when you have the Gospel."
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Laura Elizabeth Morgan - Obituary Cover
05/02/1911 - 05/28/2013
Aunt Laura was a favorite; she was Sam's mother's only sibling. She and Mable were best friends and their children always enjoyed times being together.
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Joe and Jeanne Cannon, former Mission president and wife in Rapid City who became our special friends. We appreciate their visits in our home and visiting them in their home at 725 Airport Rd., in Blackfoot, Idaho.
From their 2022 Christmas letter: "Memories! Our Christmas scrapbook is filled with treasured times we have enjoyed with each other for the past 53 years. Each year was enriched as we added four boys, daughters-in-law and grandchildren. The scrapbook prompts us with thoughts of gratitude and love. We miss those who have passed away but remember the rich traditions they bought to us as they blessed our lives. We cling to the knowledge we will see them again as part of the Eternal Plan."
2022 has been especially appreciated as Covid 19 lifted and we could resume spending time with family and friends." We all felt this way!
Our visit with Joe & Jeanne Cannon in February 2011 at Bear Lake
Visiting the Cannons in their home in Blackfoot, ID - Dec. 2009
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Ann and Duane Barker - Ann was my roommate at BYU our freshman year and first semester our sophomore year before she married Duane. We initially became acquainted when her father was our mission president in the North Central States Mission with headquarters in Minneapolis, MN. Her only sibling, Eugene England, had taught classes in Mormon literature at BYU from 1976 to 1988 when he retired due to "tensions between authoritarian control versus free expression." He wrote books of essays, poetry, biography, and numerous articles. Among other positions held in the Church at various times, he served twice as a bishop.
Ann and I have kept in touch throughout the years since our time at BYU. I was a bridesmaid at her wedding. Here are some quotes from some of Anne's Christmas cards:
"We are spending the winter in Henderson, NV with our daughter and son. Duane and David walk in the Rec. Center pool several times a week. Duane had a mini stroke in October but has completely recovered. However, he uses a cane because he is somewhat unsteady on his feet. . . . Our missionary grandson is serving in South Africa. He enjoys it. He graduated Valedictorian in May with a full-ride scholarship to USU. He'll be living with us when he returns from his mission and attending school in Logan. We have wonderful memories of our time at BYU."
Margaret Foy, Narene, Fern Ozawa, Ann England (Barker), Lilly Alder (Singleton), Dixie Davis (Alder)
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Mary Jo Peterson (Wright) is my cousin and my Uncle Edwin Peterson's daughter. It was nice getting to know her as a friend while we were at BYU. Berkeley Peterson (my Uncle Alton's son) was also at BYU my freshman year, and I was his partner for a social dance class.
We are "friends" on Facebook and also exchange Christmas cards. Here are some things shared from Mary Jo's card: "I still have 7 granddaughters and 2 grandsons. Tashia's Mary Jane MacArthur is at BYU-Provo. She plays her violin in the BYU symphony orchestra. . . . You have met Aprille and Bryan in New York City (when we were on a trip traveling with Bill and Karen). Bryan's oldest daughter, Siena, now lives in Vancouver, WA and she and Steven Davis have a 2-year old named Maggie. Maggie is my first and honorary g-g-child. . . . I'm in good health and enjoy having 3 of my kids living near me."
"My ward "ministering angel" just returned from attending the temple in Rome. Her brother was the architect for that temple."
Me with cousins when we were students at BYU: Berkley Peterson and Mary Jo Peterson
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Wilma Maxine Ireland, daughter of Howard and Mary Ireland. She married and had children with her first husband; and then when Kenneth John (Bud) Kindred died, she married Don DeBoir. Wilma has been interested in family history and sharing her information. The Howard and Mary Ireland family have annually had reunions in Martin, SD for offspring and descendants. Wilma's brothers and sisters are Myrtle Bea (1909-1995); Harold Emery (Sam's dad, 1911-2007); Lester (1913-1913); Robert LeRoy (Bob) (1913-1986; Theodore Raymond (Slim) (1916-1993); Oscar Edwin (1917-1945); Melvin Lewis (1920-1943); Mable Irene (1921-2012); Forest Howard (Shorty) (1923-2016); Eulalia Belle (Curly) , (1924-Living); Bernetha May (1925-1926); Bernice Mary (Beanie) (1925-2011); William Wayne (1928-1998); and Wilma Maxine (1932-living).
(back row): Bernice (Beanie), Eulalia (Curly), Wilma, Mable (front): Harold and Forest (Shorty) - 2006
(back row): Wilma, Eulalia, Bernice (front): Forest, Harold (2003)
Forest (Shorty), Wilma, and Eulalia (Curly) at Curly's 90th birthday celebration in 2014 (born in 1924)
Curly's 90th birthday with Wilma
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Shorty Ireland, sending his letter from the Kadoka Nursing Home, wrote that his health was good and he enjoys being with friends and family. "If you get to Kadoka stop by and visit. I love to visit with company - a game of cards could break out at anytime, so stop and spend some time visiting and playing cards."
Curly Mansfield, 2013: "I feel like I've aged a lot since Bert died. I use a walker all the time. I still drive around town, but if I want to go out of town, someone drives me. I'm amazed at all the help I get from my family and all the people around town. I go over to the Frosted Petal, a bakery and flower shop, for breakfast and to the Senior Center for lunch 5 days a week."
"Our family is all doing OK and most of the great-grand kids are in college; only Sarah (LaRene's) and Alison and Jackson (Tancy's) are in grade school; none in high school. Shantel finished her training and is employed at the hospital in Alliance, NE. She and Travis Lurz plan to marry May 31, 2014. Abby and Adam Meany have set their wedding date May 16, 2014. Bill has informed his insurance company that he is retiring June 30, 2014.
2018: Had her 94th birthday September 28. Moved from her apartment in Martin to an apartment in Rapid City (2620 Holiday Lane, Apt. 239, Rapid City, SD 57702) "I had lived alone about 6 years, so I found my own entertainment like riding and crocheting. Before I left Martin, Eastern Star had a ceremony awarding me my 60-year pin. I had held most of the offices. Church, Star, Senior Center and Legion and Auxiliary was our social life. The Senior Center had a very nice farewell dinner for me."
Family: Bill, Jane Anne, Tammy and Tancy and families live in Rapid Valley. Tonya and family are in Mitchell, SD. Bill spends a lot of time at Martin on the ranch. Jane Anne is in Rapid City mostly. Ray is on his ranch in Bennett County. Jack and Betty live in Ord, NE. He still works at the bank. LaRene and family live in NE and Mark is in Kansas City, KS.
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Patti and Galen Busch, friends that feel like family. Our families have shared many good times together and have served in the church in many callings. They both have moved on to their Celestial home. We cherish the special memories shared with them and their children: Colin (md. Wanda), Kevin (md. Totes), Nicole (md. Jim), Kendra (md. Shannon), Marci (md. Jeremy), and Mandi (md. Todd).
(2013) "Galen keeps busy with his volunteer work at Habitat for Humanity (almost full-time) and during the summer he plants a large garden. I am still working at the dorm and am adjusting to not having mom here as she lived with us for 3 years. We keep busy with our church jobs and are grateful for the chance to be of service."
(2016) "My biggest undertaking was to accept a call to teach an online class in the New Testament to teenagers in the church who can't make it to a church building for the class. I am not a tech person so it was a challenge to learn to do WebEx, etc., but has been a blessing. I really love doing it. I am also president of our Relief Society in the church so I keep busy. Along with church I am keeping busy with being treasurer for our local Chamber of Commerce and Habitat for Humanity. I have also tried to take up painting again. I had a hard time getting back into it - my eyes are not as clear, even after surgery in October, but I am truly blessed."
Galen Busch (September 10 1939 - April 25, 2014). He suffered a massive stroke on April 24th and was taken by ambulance to Rosebud where he was flown to Sanford in Sioux Falls. He was pronounced dead the following day. Survived by his wife, Patti of Mission; children - Colin (Wanda) Busch of Kamas, Utah; Kevin (Totes Waln) Busch of Mission; Nicole (Jim) Simko of Salt Lake City; Kendra (Shannon) Fernen of Mission; Marci (Jeremy) Stevens, St. Lawrence, SD; Mandi (Todd) Loughran, Valentine, NE; sister Kathleen (Harold) Schultz of Yorkville, IL; Sister-in-law Margaret Busch of Mendon, VT; 10 grand- children, 5 great grandchildren and numerous nephews and nieces.
(xxxx) Patti: "I finished the hard chemo in February and since have had an infusion every 3 weeks of Herceptin. I went back to work at the dorm filling in half days when I felt good and was needed as the person who took my place ended up leaving in January to be with her daughter whose cancer returned.
Patti Busch (August 17, 1942 - June 3, 2019 (aged 76). She was active in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, holding various local and district positions in the Relief Society, Primary and Seminary. She was a Sunday School teacher for years and loved the children. She currently was teaching an on-line class for teenagers in the church and was serving as the Rosebud Relief Society President.
In October of 2013 she was honored at her workplace, Sicangu Owayawa Oti, at their annual wacipi by being given an Indian name -- Wawokiya Win (she who helps others). She always felt very close to all of the Native Americans she lived and worked with for so many years.
The love of life was her family. She loved her children and grandchildren and the many children she worked with at the dormitory and those at church.. She made most all of the grandkids birthday cakes every year – decorating them as they put in their order. She loved watching them participate in athletic events, rodeos, musical and artistic events as well. For years she kept the volleyball books for her husband when he was coaching.
Patti Busch and Narene - 2009
Patti Busch and Narene - October 26, 2014
Roy and Barbie Ireland divide their year between living at the farm and living in Arizona, where they bought a home in January and closed in March. "All three kids came down and visited us before we went back to SD in April. We returned to AZ in November. The airport and the cancer center are less than 30 minutes from our house so it's really nice."
"The farm had a better year than last year. The moisture was short again and cut our wheat yield down a lot. We just needed one more rain. The corn, sunflowers and milo were pretty good crops. The harvest has been a real challenge though after the early October blizzard. Brent is still trying to pick up the milo that went flat during the storm. We lost a few cattle during the storm but feel fortunate compared to a lot folks."
About 2013: Information provided on their Christmas letter: Traci and Amy living in Idaho after being in Hawaii for 5 years. Steve and Kennedy still in Rapid City with Steve working for Assurant as a sales consultant. Kennedy in the 8th grade and secretary of the student council. Chad and Trisha still working on the farm, living down by the river. Trisha working from home for Assurance, but in a different division than Steve. Roy still working on the farm, chairman of the Basin Board, but retired from the Basin Electric Board after 17 years. Barbie still enjoying gardening and did a lot of canning and freezing of the produce. She had some small areas of cancer show up in her liver, pancreas, and lymph nodes and started chemo again in December at MD Anderson Cancer Center.
Roy and Barbie Ireland
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Helen and Harvey Bauss, are dear friends from Ann Arbor, MI. They came to visit us at the farm in South Dakota several times. The first time they came in 1978. On a second visit, in 1993, they were going to Utah with their family except for Linley and Chuck and stopped at the farm. Another time they came with friends from Ann Arbor who had moved there after we had left. They came again in 2009.
Twice we went back to Ann Arbor for a visit and stayed with the Bauss family. The first time, Scott, Marla, Ryan, and Brent went with Sam and me. I drove our car and followed Sam in a truck he had full of wheat that he left in Sioux City. Scott, Marla, Ryan, and Brent went with us, and we stayed with the Bauss's. On another visit, Karen and Bill were with us on our trip to the East Coast; and on the way we stayed with Harvey and Helen in Ann Arbor. During that visit we went to a University of Michigan football game.
We appreciated having Harvey come to visit us in Spanish Fork after Helen had passed on. Helen's funeral was in 2018 (May 18, 1941 - November 30, 2018).
Helen and Harvey Bauss family, September 1993 Helen, Harvey, Tom, Doug, and David (Linley and Chuck were not there). Sam took the picture; Narene, Brent, Beth, Jeff, and Doug are with the Bauss family in the photo.
Harvey and Helen with Narene in the cornfield - 2009
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Linda and David Nearon, became friends with them on our mission
We have enjoyed receiving the nice cards from David and Linda Nearon, as they are always personally made and include a copy of one of Linda's original beautiful paintings. In 2022, the painting is of a Native lady done in beautiful pastels entitled "Pondering." The 2021 card has a cute little girl's head and shoulder painting entitled "Sweet Innocence."
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This post was started to have a place to save photos of friends and family who have included nice photos in their Christmas cards. We have friends we love who have sent cards but not included photos, and there are also friends we care about who do not have the tradition of sending cards. Thus, this post only represents those few who have a tradition of sending photos at Christmas time. It has been nice to remember these special people in our life as I have looked through the basket full of Christmas cards we have appreciated getting and represents those cards received since we moved to Spanish Fork.
In a separate post, I will add the letters received from my brother.