Friday, November 29, 2024

Visiting Jeff & Rochelle's Family in Arkansas

It was nice to go to Arkansas to visit Jeff & Rochelle's family when Jamon's mission in California was completed, and we were there to welcome him home along with his family and friends when he flew home on November 22nd.  We had flown out of Salt Lake City on November 20th, and we returned home on November 24th.  Rebecca went with us and had fun being with Kate.


Jeff,  Jamon, and Rochelle - XNA airport (Northwest Arkansas National Airport in Benton County) 


Jeff & Rochelle's family at the airport when Jamon returned home from serving his Spanish-speaking mission in California. - November 24, 2024 (Miles, Kate, Jeff, Rochelle, Jamon, Chance, and Ella)

Rochelle was the first to get a big hug when Jamon got off the plane.

Chance and Ella had waited patiently for Jamon to arrive. 

Gramma Narene got in line for a hug.

Family and friends came to welcome Jamon home from his mission.

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Gramma Narene and Rebecca in Denver airport
on our flight from Salt Lake City to Arkansas.

Jeff, Ella, Chance, Miles, and Chance
bringing logs from the wood pile for the fireplace.

Ella goes up high after Jeff gives her a push on the swing.
 

 It was a nice day, and we enjoyed going for a walk on their property. The middle of the stream divides their property from the neighbors on the other side. 







Jeff had previously gathered these dead branches (left corner). 


Drove by this park with the trees lit up on Friday evening when we went to the Can Do Hardware Store in Gravette, where the grandchildren enjoyed seeing the unique novelty toys, games, and clothes.  They each chose the bottle of soda pop flavor they wanted, and Sam and I filled a large bag with a variety of flavored candy taffy  for their family.

Jeff and Rochelle's family have a nice home.  This is the stove in their kitchen.

Sunday morning, backing out of their garage as they left for church (going in two cars).

It was nice to get to see Austin, too, as he flew home from Ricks Saturday evening.  Here he is ready to go to church the next morning in the car with Miles, Chance, and Ella. 

Our photo with Jeff before we left for the airport to return to Utah.

Rebecca had a fun time with Kate and would liked to have stayed even longer.

Monday, November 25, 2024

Santa's Message - Cherish Moments with Loved Ones

With Thanksgiving coming up in a couple of days and Christmas just around the corner, I appreciated reading this special post from December 2020 shared by Aaron Hunt, our special Santa each Christmas Eve for the past memorable years. 

Santa - 2022

 

Santa - 2020

Tonight I was reminded of how fragile life is, how fleeting, and how quickly things change. A family came to talk with Santa tonight. It started with the boy asking me to tell him what his name was. An old trick to see if I was the real Santa. So I thought oh boy here we go again. So I am using all my responses like " Did you forget your name again?" " uh-oh did you bonk your head?" As we were chatting the Grandmother informed me that it has been a rough year and the boy and girl had lost their father recently.....

My heart dropped. I realized what the boy was wanting to ask me for Christmas. I'm fighting back my tears, thinking of the pain these two are going through. He wanting so badly to find the real Santa to ask for his Dad to be brought back home. I put my arms around those two hurting children and told them that there are some things that Santa magic just cannot change. I told them that Santa could take a message to their Dad for them and asked them what they would like me to say to him? They responded, tearing up, "we love you, and how much we miss him." I told them how proud their father is of them and how he has important work to do in heaven but he will always be close to them and watching over them. Told them he loves them more than all the world. To all those who are not able to be here with their families, this Santa sends his love on behalf of all those hurting by the pains of lost loved ones. You are missed. You are loved. You will never be forgotten. May the Lord hold you till we meet again. May we all treasure our loved ones while we can for things can change in the blink of an eye. Hold on to those cherished moments with loved ones because eternity is hiding in those memories. Santa sends you his love this Christmas season.

Monday, November 18, 2024

Empty Nesters - Friends & Activities

We have enjoyed our Empty Nesters group of friends, which we have been involved with since moving to Spanish Fork.  The first couple of years we were part of the ward and stake that Hal and Christy Smith are still in, and we took turns hosting.  As stakes and wards have continued to be divided, we are now in our 4th stake and have had our ward divided six times. 

Empty Nesters - November 4, 2024




Lee Ellertson, Sam, Kay Larsen, 
 & Jesse Dunn


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This realignment in wards and stakes has resulted in our current Empty Nester members are now living in several different wards and stakes. 

Empty Nesters - Memories

December 2022 - Our home (Lynn & Karen Haskell, Chris & Hal Smith, Lee Ellerstson, Bob & Jolene McCarthy, Ellyn & Kim Berrett, Kay Larsen, Leslie & Guy Probert)


 At the Baadsgaard's in Loafer Canyon, September 2022 - (left to right - main floor) Lynn & Karen Haskell, Ross Baadsgaard, Leslie & Guy Probert, Janene Baadsgaard, Ellyn & Kim Berrett, Sandra & Eugene Cook; (on the stairs) Joelene & Bob McCarthy, (guests of the Baadsgaards), Narene (Sam took the photo)


In the past, we have encouraged others to take a turn planning the agenda or lesson for a month; and we have had good activities and good lessons.  As our members are getting older, it has gotten to where the Smiths and us are the ones "hosting" more often than not.  

As we look forward to 2025, I have shared with our group of Empty Nesters that our home is always going to be available for our monthly times together; and unless someone offers to host or invite a special guest for the "lesson" or "presentation," our monthly times together will default to being a potluck.


Guy & Leslie Probert, Hal & Christy Smith, Sandra & Eugene Cook Our home - July 2018

Empty Nesters Contact Information

Sandra Cook 1sandralcook@gmail.com


Eugene Cook 5eugenecook@gmail.com


Lee Ellertson lellertson@gmail.com


Lynn & Karen Haskell lnnhskll@gmail.com  801-505-0770


Guy & Leslie Probert  aussiefive@gmail.com 801-319-0397


Hal & Christy Smith  hal.christy@gmail.com


Kim & Ellyn Berrett washep@hotmail.com


Kay Larsen 8kidsmom@gmail.com


Bob & Jolene McCarthy jkmccarthy@juno.com


Jerry & Aracy Tubaugh - auctions@gmail.com  319-444-2413 282 N 2700 E

Aracy (“Odyssey”) (currently doing a service mission)


Rene’s & Jesse Dunn reneelmdunn@gmail.com 208-403-9083



Michael & Kristi Anderton kristianderton2@gmail.comi



Mike & Ila May Eggleston ilamayeggleston@gmail.com

(opt to have with their family instead of coming)



Returned home end of November after serving a Mission:

Ross & Janene Baadsgaard janenebaadsgaard@gmail.com



Flora Clarke passed away April 2023



Ward Split: (Caryn Morgan might be interested in receiving notices):


Sue Fernstedt fernstedt@msn.com

Caryn Ann Morgan morganet@msn.com

Bryan & Lin Thompson thompson@sfcn.org

     Paul & Ginnie Snyder ginnie.snyder@gmail.com



They Have Other Plans:

_____ & Carol Schulte carol.schulte@gmail.com

Dianna Kieffer jkmccarthy@juno.com





A Favorite Movie - "An Affair to Remember"

Cary Grant and Deborah Kerr

An Affair to Remember (1957), directed by Leo McCarey, is a timeless romantic drama that has secured its place as one of the most cherished love stories in cinematic history. Starring Cary Grant and Deborah Kerr, the film tells the story of Nickie Ferrante, a charming playboy, and Terry McKay, a talented singer, who meet aboard a transatlantic cruise. Despite being engaged to others, the two develop a profound connection, leading them to make a pact: if they still feel the same after six months, they will reunite at the Empire State Building.

The film's second half, filled with longing and missed opportunities, emphasizes themes of destiny, sacrifice, and the enduring power of love.

An Affair to Remember is a celebration of timeless romance, exploring the idea that true love transcends obstacles. It's a must-watch for anyone who appreciates classic Hollywood and stories that tug at the heartstrings.The film beautifully balances humor, passion, and heartbreak, capturing the magic of an unexpected romance. Cary Grant delivers one of his most memorable performances, blending suave sophistication with heartfelt vulnerability. Deborah Kerr is equally captivating, portraying Terry with grace and emotional depth. Their chemistry is electric, making their love story both believable and deeply moving.

Sunday, November 17, 2024

Safety for the Soul - Jeffrey R. Holland


Safety for the SoulJeffrey R. Holland

https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2009/10/safety-for-the-soul?lang=eng


Safety for the Soul

I want it absolutely clear when I stand before the judgment bar of God that I declared to the world … that the Book of Mormon is true.

Prophecies regarding the last days often refer to large-scale calamities such as earthquakes or famines or floods. These in turn may be linked to widespread economic or political upheavals of one kind or another.

But there is one kind of latter-day destruction that has always sounded to me more personal than public, more individual than collective—a warning, perhaps more applicable inside the Church than outside it. The Savior warned that in the last days even those of the covenant, the very elect, could be deceived by the enemy of truth.1 If we think of this as a form of spiritual destruction, it may cast light on another latter-day prophecy. Think of the heart as the figurative center of our faith, the poetic location of our loyalties and our values; then consider Jesus’s declaration that in the last days “men’s hearts [shall fail] them.”2

The encouraging thing, of course, is that our Father in Heaven knows all of these latter-day dangers, these troubles of the heart and soul, and has given counsel and protections regarding them.

In light of that, it has always been significant to me that the Book of Mormon, one of the Lord’s powerful keystones3 in this counteroffensive against latter-day ills, begins with a great parable of life, an extended allegory of hope versus fear, of light versus darkness, of salvation versus destruction—an allegory of which Sister Ann M. Dibb spoke so movingly this morning.

In Lehi’s dream an already difficult journey gets more difficult when a mist of darkness arises, obscuring any view of the safe but narrow path his family and others are to follow. It is imperative to note that this mist of darkness descends on allthe travelers—the faithful and the determined ones (the elect, we might even say) as well as the weaker and ungrounded ones. The principal point of the story is that the successful travelers resist all distractions, including the lure of forbidden paths and jeering taunts from the vain and proud who have taken those paths. The record says that the protected “did press their way forward, continually [and, I might add, tenaciously] holding fast” to a rod of iron that runs unfailingly along the course of the true path.4 However dark the night orthe day, the rod marks the way of that solitary, redeeming trail.

“I beheld,” Nephi says later, “that the rod of iron … was the word of God, [leading] … to the tree of life; … a representation of the love of God.” Viewing this manifestation of God’s love, 

Nephi goes on to say:

“I looked and beheld the Redeemer of the world, … [who] went forth ministering unto the people. …

“… And I beheld multitudes of people who were sick, and who were afflicted with all manner of diseases, and with devils and unclean spirits; … and they were healed by the power of the Lamb of God; and the devils and the unclean spirits were cast out.”5

Love. Healing. Help. Hope. The power of Christ to counter all troubles in all times—including the end of times. That is the safe harbor God wants for us in personal or public days of despair. That is the message with which the Book of Mormon begins, and that is the message with which it ends, calling all to “come unto Christ, and be perfected in him.”6That phrase—taken from Moroni’s final lines of testimony, written 1,000 years after Lehi’s vision—is a dying man’s testimony of the only true way.

May I refer to a modern “last days” testimony? When Joseph Smith and his brother Hyrum started for Carthage to face what they knew would be an imminent martyrdom, Hyrum read these words to comfort the heart of his brother:

“Thou hast been faithful; wherefore … thou shalt be made strong, even unto the sitting down in the place which I have prepared in the mansions of my Father.

“And now I, Moroni, bid farewell … until we shall meet before the judgment-seat of Christ.”7


A few short verses from the 12th chapter of Ether in the Book of Mormon. Before closing the book, Hyrum turned down the corner of the page from which he had read, marking it as part of the everlasting testimony for which these two brothers were about to die. I hold in my hand that book, the very copy from which Hyrum read, the same corner of the page turned down, still visible. Later, when actually incarcerated in the jail, Joseph the Prophet turned to the guards who held him captive and bore a powerful testimony of the divine authenticity of the Book of Mormon.8 Shortly thereafter pistol and ball would take the lives of these two testators.


As one of a thousand elements of my own testimony of the divinity of the Book of Mormon, I submit this as yet one more evidence of its truthfulness. In this their greatest—and last—hour of need, I ask you: would these men blaspheme before God by continuing to fix their lives, their honor, and their own search for eternal salvation on a book (and by implication a church and a ministry) they had fictitiously created out of whole cloth?


Never mind that their wives are about to be widows and their children fatherless. Never mind that their little band of followers will yet be “houseless, friendless and homeless” and that their children will leave footprints of blood across frozen rivers and an untamed prairie floor.9 Never mind that legions will die and other legions live declaring in the four quarters of this earth that they know the Book of Mormon and the Church which espouses it to be true. Disregard all of that, and tell me whether in this hour of death these two men would enter the presence of their Eternal Judge quoting from and finding solace in a book which, if not the very word of God, would brand them as imposters and charlatans until the end of time? They would not do that! They were willing to die rather than deny the divine origin and the eternal truthfulness of the Book of Mormon.

For 179 years this book has been examined and attacked, denied and deconstructed, targeted and torn apart like perhaps no other book in modern religious history—perhaps like no other book in any religious history. And still it stands. Failed theories about its origins have been born and parroted and have died—from Ethan Smith to Solomon Spaulding to deranged paranoid to cunning genius. None of these frankly pathetic answers for this book has ever withstood examination because there is no other answer than the one Joseph gave as its young unlearned translator. In this I stand with my own great-grandfather, who said simply enough, “No wicked man could write such a book as this; and no good man would write it, unless it were true and he were commanded of God to do so.”10

I testify that one cannot come to full faith in this latter-day work—and thereby find the fullest measure of peace and comfort in these, our times—until he or she embraces the divinity of the Book of Mormon and the Lord Jesus Christ, of whom it testifies. If anyone is foolish enough or misled enough to reject 531 pages of a heretofore unknown text teeming with literary and Semitic complexity without honestly attempting to account for the origin of those pages—especially without accounting for their powerful witness of Jesus Christ and the profound spiritual impact that witness has had on what is now tens of millions of readers—if that is the case, then such a person, elect or otherwise, has been deceived; and if he or she leaves this Church, it must be done by crawling over or under or around the Book of Mormon to make that exit. In that sense the book is what Christ Himself was said to be: “a stone of stumbling, … a rock of offence,”11a barrier in the path of one who wishes not to believe in this work. Witnesses, even witnesses who were for a time hostile to Joseph, testified to their death that they had seen an angel and had handled the plates. “They have been shown unto us by the power of God, and not of man,” they declared. “Wherefore we know of a surety that the work is true.”12

Now, I did not sail with the brother of Jared in crossing an ocean, settling in a new world. I did not hear King Benjamin speak his angelically delivered sermon. I did not proselyte with Alma and Amulek nor witness the fiery death of innocent believers. I was not among the Nephite crowd who touched the wounds of the resurrected Lord, nor did I weep with Mormon and Moroni over the destruction of an entire civilization. But my testimony of this record and the peace it brings to the human heart is as binding and unequivocal as was theirs. Like them, “[I] give [my name] unto the world, to witness unto the world that which [I] have seen.” And like them, “[I] lie not, God bearing witness of it.”13

I ask that my testimony of the Book of Mormon and all that it implies, given today under my own oath and office, be recorded by men on earth and angels in heaven. I hope I have a few years left in my “last days,” but whether I do or do not, I want it absolutely clear when I stand before the judgment bar of God that I declared to the world, in the most straightforward language I could summon, that the Book of Mormon is true, that it came forth the way Joseph said it came forth and was given to bring happiness and hope to the faithful in the travail of the latter days.

My witness echoes that of Nephi, who wrote part of the book in his “last days”:

“Hearken unto these words and believe in Christ; and if ye believe not in these words believe in Christ. And if ye shall believe in Christ ye will believe in these words, for they are the words of Christ, … and they teach all men that they should do good.

“And if they are not the words of Christ, judge ye—for Christ will show unto you, with power and great glory, that they are his words, at the last day.14

Brothers and sisters, God always provides safety for the soul, and with the Book of Mormon, He has again done that in our time. Remember this declaration by Jesus Himself: “Whoso treasureth up my word, shall not be deceived”15—and in the last days neither your heart nor your faith will fail you. Of this I earnestly testify in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.

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"As one of a thousand elements of my own testimony of the divinity of the Book of Mormon, I submit this as yet one more evidence of its truthfulness. In this their greatest—and last—hour of need, I ask you: would these men blaspheme before God by continuing to fix their lives, their honor, and their own search for eternal salvation on a book (and by implication a church and a ministry) they had fictitiously created out of whole cloth?
"Never mind that their wives are about to be widows and their children fatherless. Never mind that their little band of followers will yet be “houseless, friendless and homeless” and that their children will leave footprints of blood across frozen rivers and an untamed prairie floor. Never mind that legions will die and other legions live declaring in the four quarters of this earth that they know the Book of Mormon and the Church which espouses it to be true. Disregard all of that, and tell me whether in this hour of death these two men would enter the presence of their Eternal Judge quoting from and finding solace in a book which, if not the very word of God, would brand them as imposters and charlatans until the end of time? They would not do that! They were willing to die rather than deny the divine origin and the eternal truthfulness of the Book of Mormon."
Elder Holland (his quote posted on Facebook, November 17, 2024)