Friday, January 30, 2026
* CHURCH - Every Latter-day President Has Testified of the Book of Mormon
Thursday, January 29, 2026
* FUNERAL - K. LeRoi Nelson Memorial Services - My Memories Shared
I am grateful for the memories and times shared with my brother. Although most know him as Roi Nelson, his first given name was “Kay,” which is the name my sister Louise and I used - so my children know him as “Uncle Kay.”
He was 12 years old when I was born in South Dakota. Our father had moved from Cache County in Utah in the fall of 1931, having been hired by the federal government’s Bureau of Indian Affairs, working first at the Cheyenne River Agency where I was born; and then in March of 1942, our family moved near Mission, South Dakota, on the Rosebud reservation. My brother remained to finish the 12th grade school year in Gettsyburg, South Dakota, before coming to join our family and graduate from Todd County High School in Mission, South Dakota.
My brother has always been a good worker. When he was a teenager, he worked summers in South Dakota doing farm and ranch work on the government farm and ranch that our father managed. He put in long hours but liked working outdoors and enjoying nature.
We had a Chesapeake dog named Rex that K. would hitch up to pull a sled on the large dam near our home when the water was covered with thick ice. He also fixed up an “ice boat,” that had a flat bottom with a sail for a ride moved by the wind on the ice.
Roi met the love of his life, Ina Shepherd, in Logan where they both were seniors at Utah State University and worked together as business managers of the yearbook. They were married in the Salt Lake Temple September 4, 1947, and graduated together in May 1948.
They then moved to Lafayette, Indiana, where Roi attended graduate school at Purdue where he got his doctorate degree and started teaching at Purdue University. They moved to Westwood, California in 1952, where Roi did Postdoctoral research at UCLA. In the fall of 1954, Roy was hired at Wayne State University in Detroit, where they purchased their first home in Berkeley, Michigan. In January of 1956, they moved to Provo, Utah, when my brother joined the faculty at BYU teaching organic chemistry.
During some of my earlier years, my brother was not living at home - while he served in the U. S. Air Corp, attended Utah State University in Logan, and then was married and starting a family - so many of our shared special memories actually began when I came to BYU as a freshman and he was married to Ina and teaching at BYU. However, I do have a special memory of staying with them part of the summer in 1954 when Ronald was a baby and they were living in Lafayette, Indiana, where my brother was teaching at Purdue University.
When they were living in Saint George, I came one summer for a visit and went hiking with Roi. The trail had been changed from when he had hiked this way previously, so it took us longer to get down to the car than he had expected. It was a hot day, and he had run out of water as we were hiking back down and he wasn’t feeling able to continue. I was really concerned, but after sitting on a stump for some minutes, he was able to continue on down to the car. He said it was a reminder to always be better prepared with water on the next hike. He kept a record of his hikes and got a lot of pleasure being in nature.
K. and Ina hosted our first Nelson Family Reunion at their place near Sundance, with the next reunion in South Dakota at our farm, and then more memories made in California when Louise and the Hyers hosted. I’m grateful for those special memories.
Other fun travel memories were made with our parents who invited K. and Ina, our sister Louise and husband Angus, and Sam and me on a trip overseas to Israel, Greece, England, and Switzerland with a BYU study group. Our next overseas trip with our parents was to Europe and to the Oberammergau passion play in Germany and to 5 other European countries. Our third trip with our parents was an Eastern Caribbean cruise that included the coast of Venezuela. So many wonderful family memories made and shared.
Kay later arranged for a siblings’ cruise to the Western Caribbean for the wives and husbands creating more happy memories.
I am grateful Sam and I went to visit Kay in his apartment in Orem in December. He had a sign on his door inviting visitors to come in to share his Christmas display of the creche my father-in-law had made with wood from a tree from our farm in South Dakota. We had a nice visit with Kay that day while he set aside the book he had been reading before we came.
My brother made good memories while he was here and now has had a wonderful reunion in heaven with Ina and four children - daughter Marlene and son Alan, both who lived only a few hours, and more recently Ronald and then Harold who each had enjoyed special lives until passing on, along with our parents, and other family and friends waiting to welcome him.
I am grateful K. LeRoi is my brother. I love him.
And I share these fond memories in the Name of Jesus Christ, Amen.
* PHOTOS - Remembering My Brother, Kay LeRoi Nelson
(My mother's funeral) 1992 - Grandmother Nelson's funeral with Kay standing between son David and father LeRoi Nelson. (Kayleen, David, K. LeRoi, Granddad Nelson, Ina, Karalee,David, and Ronald)
Grandpa LeRoi Nelson: He stayed in the canyon for about nine months this past year (2018). We have enjoyed doing work projects together. He has designed and drew the plans for an R & R Center on the property. The foundation was poured last fall. He's our hero at 92 years old. His main residence is in St. George, where he hikes and stays involved in special projects and organizations. We love our hikes together!
Kay in the Salt Lake Tabernacle
David & Kayleen's family at Sundance with Blake & Niki's family, 2020
We saw many historical and interesting things on that European trip, including Michelanaagelo's Pieta in Saint Peter's Basilica, Vatican City, in Italy.