Monday, January 30, 2023

Ivar Sandberg Documentary

Sam and I appreciated being invited to the premier documentary about Ivar Sandberg shown in a theater in the JFSB theater at BYU on Thursday, January 26, 2023.  It was nice to see members of the Sandberg family there and others who had been part of the Gettysburg branch in South Dakota in those early years. 


Members of the Sandberg family 
plus me (Narene, 2nd from right) & Otis Clinton Jones (center), the 90-year-old gentleman seated in the center wearing a yellow sweater who is the missionary having served as the district president when Ivar was the branch president in Gettysburg. 

Ivar would later have served as the district president had he not died following an accident while driving, and so my dad who was going to be Ivar's councilor became the first South Dakotan to serve as president in this newly formed district. 

I had always enjoyed hearing the inspirational story about Ivar Sandberg during my years of growing up and had shared it with my family; but the documentary included things I had not known before, including the reason for his coming to the United States from Sweden as a teenager because of the hunting accident.  

Professor Fred Woods who produced the documentary had come to our home in Spanish Fork twice to interview me knowing my parents were the first church members in South Dakota Ivar had met and they became good friends.  

Watching this film, I was completely surprised to see that several times I was included in the film sharing my comments.


My mother and dad holding me in 1938 (back row, left) 
with K. and Louise standing in front of our dad.  
The Larson parents are at the right with their two older daughters at the left and right of Louise and their youngest daughter in front of Louise.  Ivar Sandberg is between my dad and Lulu Larsen.

The name of the film is A Swede and a Seed:  The conversion story f Ivar Sandberg.  To watch it, here is the link:

https://www.byutv.org/2cbefc46-58bb-45a9-a25b-f01d29c8c597/a-swede-and-a-seed:-the-ivar-sandberg-story?player-open=true&content-id=2cbefc46-58bb-45a9-a25b-f01d29c8c597




The next photo of Ivar and his wife, Mildred, was included in the documentary and is a photographer's photo I provided from one I inherited from my parents.


Ivar and his wife, Mildred

My brother, being 12 years older than me, remembers when Ivar baptized Mildred in the Missouri River near our home in Cheyenne Agency.  My father wrote in his autobiography that Ivar and Mildred came to our home to get ready for the baptism and then returned to their home following the baptism where Mildred was confirmed and they had a fast and testimony meeting.


After Ivar's death, my dad, who would have served as Ivar's counselor had Ivar not died as a result of the accident, was then called to be the district president. 
Art Eliason (left, Ivar's brother-in-law, married to Vivian who is Mildred's sister) and Elmer Peters (right) were my dad's counselors
(LeRoi Nelson, center).  

A current photo of Ivar and Mildred's children (with Gilbert's wife, Michelle, in the front and left of Gilbert):
(l to r) Wanda, (Michelle), Gilbert, Philip, Charlotte, David, and Kathleen

I have many nice memories of attending branch and district conferences of the Gettysburg branch in the small rural chapel.  As an older teenager I often was the driver to branch and district conferences while my dad would spend the time thinking about and preparing for the conference.

  In the documentary there is a photo of my dad with Ivar at the groundbreaking for this chapel.  Years later, a very memorable district conference for me was when Elder Bruce R. McConkie was the visiting General Authority.  I took notes in shorthand of his talk, "Born Again."  Sam had also gone to this conference with me.

"Now, we are members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We have taken upon ourselves his name in the waters of baptism. We renew the covenant therein made when we partake of the sacrament. If we have been born again, we have become the sons and daughters of the Lord Jesus Christ. We are members of his family. We are obligated and expected to live by the standards of the family. Because of that family membership, that close association, we have the privilege of an intimate association with him. We have been given the gift of the Holy Ghost, which is the constant companionship of that member of the Godhead based on faithfulness. And that Holy Spirit has as one of his chief missions to bear record of the Father and the Son, and to reveal to us, in a way that cannot be controverted or questioned, his divine sonship and the glorious truths that are in him." (Elder Bruce R. McConkie)

Family of Ivar Sandberg 
at the premier showing of the film "A Sweed and a Seed.  The Ivar Sandberg Story." -  BYU on Jan. 26, 2023.

We saw David Sandberg and his wife (2nd row at the right in brown suits) in St. Petersburg when we were on our mission in Russia.  David was the mission president in St. Petersburg.

In my dad's autobiography, he wrote this about the Sandberg's children, as of August 1988:  "All graduated from BYU.  Their son Gilbert is a stake president in Denver, Colorado; Philip is a bishop in Canada, and David is a bishop in Sadia Arabia."

What a wonderful family legacy!

Friday, January 27, 2023

Remembering the Mediterranean Cruise with Bill & Karen - 2010

 My blog format has changed since I started the irelandshereandthere.blogspot.com back in 2007.  Today I had a reminder of these changes when I looked back at the posting of the Mediterranean Cruise we took in 2010 with Bill and Karen.  The photos in the original posting were smaller, but have some good information in the captions.

The purpose for taking pictures on these trips is to remember what we saw and did as well as to share with family and friends who might be interested.

I have chosen these photos to share on this blog entry as a small representation of the pictures we actually took and posted in the original blog entries.  They do bring back fond memories.

Mediterranean Cruise on the "Norwegian Jade"
January  24 - February 5, 2010

Boarding our ship for the Mediterranean cruise with Bill & Karen.

We flew from Denver to Barcelona, Spain, where we were welcomed by our former exchange student, Jaro Fraile Lopez, and his parents (Carlos and Pilar). They took us sightseeing, treated us to local cuisine, made us feel comfortable in their home where we stayed, took us to the cruise ship, and Carlos met us at the end of our cruise and took us to the airport.  


Jairo, Pilar, Sam, Carlos, Bill and Karen


Gaudi's Nativity Facade of the famous "Sagrade Familia Temple" in Barcelona (Narene)

Our shore excursions included Rome, Italy; Athens, Greece; Izmir and Ephesus, Turkey; Alexandria and Cairo, Egypt; and Malta.  


The Colosseum in Rome, Italy (Bill, Sam, Narene, and Karen)


Our photo by Rome's iconic "Trevi Fountain," built in the 1700s.


Michelangelo's "Pieta" in Rome


We enjoyed experiencing these cultures and historical sites, but we wish we could have avoided catching the gastrointestinal bug that spread rampant through the ship and caused Sam to have to remain on the ship in Greece and Turkey and almost kept me from getting off the ship in Egypt.


Athens, Greece
Parthenon behind the Acropolis wall and rocky hill top.

Athens tour at night with Bill and Karen.  
Sam was quarantined back on the ship.  He was supposed to be our guide in Athens having been there before.  The taxicab driver dropped us off and pointed out where he would be to return us to the ship; however, we had a different understanding of which church he pointed out as our landmark and we got lost.  It became a little scary wondering if we would finally find our waiting cab in time to make it back to the ship before the deadline for sailing.  It was close, but we made it!


"Library of Celsus," one of the most beautiful structures in Ephesus; was made in 117 A.D. and could hold an estimated 12,000 papyrus scrolls.  (Karen & Narene)


Bill and our guide at the best preserved structure in Ephesus.

 
Now in Egypt with the Sphinx behind us.


Our photo op riding a camel with pyramids in the background. 


The fort at Malta


Karen and Narene by our cruise ship.
We enjoyed the ship's entertainment, especially dancing and listening to the music from the small musical group "Amadeus."  Yes, Sam and Bill actually danced with us.  

Sam, Narene, Karen, and Bill ready to enjoy the ship's entertainment.

Flamingo dancers were one of the featured entertainers.  However, my favorite show featured music by guys who sang like El Divo; and I went to their show a second time without Sam, Bill, or Karen to enjoy listening to their music one more time.

Karen and I even made gift bags during a craft time.



This was a memorable cruise enjoyed with Bill and Karen, except, of course, for the widespread gastrointestinal illness that went through the ship during the cruise.  But these photos bring back the nice memories to appreciate.

Sunday, January 22, 2023

Discarding "Things"

A post I saw on Facebook: 
EVERYONE will go thru this discarding of “things” that are the memories of one’s life. Sometimes it’s our own and more often it’s the life of someone we love…..❤️

When my mom was cleaning out her house over 23 years ago to sell it, I wasn't very sympathetic over her attachments to things. I would go over on weekends to help her and we would go through things, things for a yard sale, things to donate, things to throw away. I would usually get upset over how long it was taking her to decide. For instance, we were going through kitchen cabinets and she spent 20 minutes looking at an iron kettle with a lid. Finally I said,
“Mom, at this rate it is going to take us another 2 years.”

She told me that her mother used to make meals in that kettle and leave them at doorsteps of neighbors during the depression, mom would deliver them, and then they would reappear back to her with an apron, or a wood carving, something in return for the meal. I realized that everything that my mom was going through was really a reliving of her life.

If you are reading this and are under the age of 60, you won't get it. You haven't lived long enough. Most of you have not had to move your parents into a nursing home, or emptied their home. You haven't lived long enough to realize that the hours you spend picking out the right cabinets or the perfect tile will not be what matters in the later years. It will be the handmade toothbrush holder, or a picture that you got on vacation.

So, if your parents are downsizing, and moving to smaller places, or selling a home, give your mom and even your dad a break. Those things that you don't understand why they can’t just pitch, and why you think you know what needs to be tossed or saved, give them a little time to make their decisions. They are saying goodbye to their past and realizing that they are getting ready for their end of life, while you are beginning your life.

As I have been going through things, it's amazing just how hard it is to get rid of objects. But, life goes on, and you realize they are just things, but sometimes things comfort us. So give your parents or grandparents a break. Listen to their stories; because in 40 years, when you are going through those boxes and the memories come back, it will be hard to get rid of those plastic glasses that you and your late husband used at a New Years party 40 years ago. You will think nothing of the tile or the light fixtures that were so important then.

As happy as they are for you, and as much as they love you, you just don't have a clue until it happens to you and then you will remember how you rushed them; and it will make you sad, especially if they are already gone and you can't say I’m sorry, I didn’t get it.

Friday, January 20, 2023

A Memorable Closing to 2022

Koryn and Kyle had Dash sealed to them in the Provo City Temple on December 27, 2022.  We were pleased to be there for this special occasion which was followed by a luncheon at Kyle & Koryn's home with their parents support.


Ryan & Tani and Narene & Sam
with Kyle, Koryn, and Dash
following sealing Dash to his parents in the Provo City Temple.

The happy parents with their son, Dash.

Happy grandparents, too (Tani and Ryan)!


With Koryn's parents and Kyle's parents
following the sealing.


Jamon getting goodbye hugs before leaving for his
California Bakersfield Mission.


New Year's Eve Celebration with Family

Curtis playing "Tenzi" with Max and Anna


Max, Anna, Haley, and Rebecca
in the sport court.


Watching the Michigan vs. TCU football game.
Disappointing for our family, TCU won 51 - 45.


Rebecca joined her mom and Joshua wearing U of M sweatshirts.  


Max, Anna, Haley, and Rebecca in the sport court.


Anna with her Gramma and mom - Marla and Sarah


Haley and Tyler


Shannon and Doug with Isaac, Corban, and Mason
(missing Brynlee and Jacob)


Max getting ready to go home with his mom.


Sarah


Anna and Paul stayed longer with Curtis & Marla.

We wish all a "Happy New Year!"
(Narene & Sam)


Christmas lights seen with Christy & Hal Smith in Payson.
(December 29)

Saying goodbye to 2022 and looking forward to 2023.

Christmas Eve - More Photos

 I appreciate Beth taking family photos on these special memorable events, which will continue to bring back happy memories.

Joshua, Beth, Rebecca, Todd, and Jared

Megan and Gabe

Curtis and Marla

Sarah and Derek with Paul, Anna, Max, and Grant 

Trevor and Megan with Sadie and James

Maggie and Tayler

Haley and Tyler

 

Trevor telling James the Nativity story.

Ryan and Tani with Marisa; Koryn, Kyle, and Dash; Brady, Kortney, and Hadley; Carson and Elise

Ryan and Tani

Koryn and Kyle with Dash

Brady and Kortney with Hadley


Elise and Carson

Doug and Shannon with Isaac, Jacob, Corban, Mason, and Brynlee


Scott and Kristine were in Texas for Joe's baptism and had Christmas with Brittney and Matt's family.  We appreciate their sharing their Christmas photo.

(back) Kristine, Shannon, Brittney holding Hannah, Matt holding Mabel, and Scott
(front) Kate, Monty, Joe, and Robert)


Brent and Tauna had Christmas with their family at the farm.  They sent me this Christmas Eve photo:

Weston, Rachel, Sam, and Seth at the farm.


We went to Beth and Todd's Christmas morning and watched them open gifts and stockings and enjoyed a nice brunch.  

Amanda made this trio of pictures for us of the three stages for our home at the farm:  (1) the original home where Howard and Mary lived, (2) the way the house looked when we lived there with our seven children, and (3) how the house is now with the changes and addition we made.


We appreciate the nice gifts from our family that we opened at the Graham's on Christmas morning.  Dad got a Kindle so now we both can read the books Beth shares with us on our two Kindles.  We got a handy dandelion extractor for the lawn, a brush to keep our drink holders clean, a movie card, an In-N-Out card, and a phone cable so we can connect our iPhones to the car screen.  Thank you!  

Our gifts opened on Christmas morning at the Graham's.
  The warm mittens were made by Todd's sister from sweaters and were a gift for me from Beth & Todd.  

Sam's new tie from me.

Sam gave me Jeffrey R. Holland's book 
"Our Day Star Rising, Exploring the New Testament."

December 27th - a photo with Maggie and Taylor before they left to fly home to Arizona.